Is it okay for my bf to have female-friends but me not be able to have a single male friend?

My boyfriend has 3+ girl-friends. He says he never dated any of them or slept with any of them. One he has given a sponge bath, the second hes taken a shower with them (when they were drunk), and the third one he has rubbed glitter-lotion on her right after she got out of the tub. None of this stuff happened while "WE" were together though. The one who he rubbed glitter-lotion on has spoken to him about her vibrator when she thought I wasn't in the house. She continuously calls him at night and asks him is he still with me so she can get a chance to take care of him. The other 2 are sisters and call him everyday. One time he had me babysit his 7 year old daughter from 8pm to 2pm so he could go drink with her! I have an exboyfriend that I had broken up with 4 years ago and we talk every now and then (about 4 times a month on the phone) I might see him in person like once a month or less often than that really. I always see him outside in a public place or outside my mom's house (he never comes in the house) Yesterday was his birthday and my boyfriend was at work, so we drank wine in the front yard for about 25 minutes and he left. My boyfriend found out about it and was pissed and on the verge of breaking up with me. By the way; last year on *Holly's birthday I had him supper cooked and was anxious for him to get home and eat and right after he got off work he smoked a blunt with her and was 1 hour late home. When I see my male-friend I do it on my time not his(or interfere with his time with me) And I certainly don't do y things or discusions with my male-friend. WHO IS IN THE WRONG?