Does he only like me for physical reasons or does he actually want to be with me?

Showing someone how you feel doesn't have to equal . An honest in-depth conversation should be the first port of call. Don't feel that to show your interest you have to go straight back to . If he isn't just interested in , he will understand this. If he'd rather be with her then thats probably where he'd be so just ignore her and her prettiness, if she has an ugly personality then her so-called prettiness isn't worth a light. He seems so far to have chosen you over her and her prettiness. Maybe that means that you are pretty both outside and in :) Take things slowly, talk things over properly before getting into bed this time and make sure that you know where you stand.